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Where you are is OK

Where you are is already perfect. Nobody needs to change because they aren’t good enough but because they want to grow.

It’s natural

You already are good enough, you are perfect where you are, you don’t need to change to become a better person. You already are  that person. All you need to do is let her SHINE!


If all kids believe and know that they are already perfect, and what lies in front of them is endless opportunities to learn and grow.

Not because they need to become better, but because they are destined to be great and fulfill their dreams.

Imagine what would happen if we all believed that. The competition would end. The self doubt and fears would dissipate. Only the desire for more happiness, better relationships, and more success, would remain. Without any expectations or pressure. We would dare to believe in our dreams again.

We are designed to change and grow, it is natural.

Everything in natures changes and grows. A seed grows into a tree or a flower. In the right environment.

Everything alive has unique capacities. A rose has the capacity to grow into a beautiful, colourful flower with a sweet, full fragrance. It’s talent is radiant colours and mesmerizing aromas.

YOUR natural talent lies in the capacity to realize your unique dreams and the capacity to love and create. In the right internal environment...which YOU create!

Who is Erna Stassen?

Erna Stassen was born and raised in the Netherlands. She realized her dream to live, work and play in Canada when she immigrated to BC in 2003 and became a Canadian citizen.

She has bachelor degrees in kinetic science and physiotherapy and worked with people of all ages.

After a major health crisis, she decided to start her own practice and developed a treatment program in a warm water pool.

After working in the health care system for over 25 years, she retired as a physiotherapist, recognizing a deeper health crisis: Dis-Empowerment.

Now, she loves to help others to be who they truly want to be.

How Erna Helps her clients

Results others are getting

"I started with no expectations and slowly found I could not wait for the next post, I found myself reading them over again in case I missed something. I could relate, it allowed me to feel and to grow and understand. "


"Erna has a fabulous outlook on life. Her perspective helps others to define their priorities while helping them realize their own qualities. An excellent course to uplift, and create a more joyful life!! "


"I am so grateful for the challenge of changing negative thoughts to positive thoughts and happy to do the work within myself to accomplish this. Thankful for the encouragement. The tools I am acquiring are very helpful. "


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